make it happen

People say: we shouldnt wait for something to happen by LUCK, we should MAKE IT HAPPEN.

but how?

First, you have to know what is your goal, like what you want to achieve.
Second, work hard and pursue it, be result-oriented.

OK, so the process is the most crucial thing. You have to change yourself, your old way of life, your old habits, your old thinkings... that's not easy, but thats the main factor for you to get some new things in your life, which you are thirsty of.