know what you are doing

i think its important that you know what you are doing.

people may criticize your decisions, what you do, how you dress, how you make up...... Its nothing wrong to do whatever you want, just have a goal and faith in what you're doing. Of course sometimes you may need to listen to some other opinions, like, for some apparent bad behaviours, like treating your friends or parents badly, saying rude words, being rude, having bad temper, neglecting people's feeling.... those are something that you may not find out yourself, which you need reminders from the people around you.

You know what, there are two kinds of people, two extremes:

1. just talkoing abt her/himself, but never ask anything abt you
- he/she is just finding somebody to listen to his/her wonderful history and life; but he/she doesnt really care about you.

2. always asking things about you, but never share anything abt him/herself
- he/she is a rumour maker, he/she gathers all the information and spread it out; or he/she just knowing everything about everyone, but no one knows anything about him/her.

I have met these two types of people, my friend is probably the first type. For the second type, you'll just know it over time, which needs time. But then you just have a habit not to tell people so much about yourself, that would be better.